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Blink, blink, blink goes the cursor…

Blink, blink, blink goes the cursor…

I sat down to write. Like an hour ago. So far, I've written a jingle about a blinking cursor. That about sums up where we are.Part of it is I haven't been on this site for a bit and am legit lost. I feel like Rip Van Winkle except instead of sleeping through a war, I...

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No Shame

No Shame

Well, it had to come. Some of you readers have been with me for a while now. You’ve read these random blogs and followed along on Facebook as Jax came home from China, was diagnosed with all the things, and proceeded to grow up into a teenage boy. He’s gone from...

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(This filter is called Dramatic Cool. I am ONE of these things. Hint to which one: I just announced that I might DIE because I forgot to buy a frozen pizza. Now I have to eat kale for dinner. What is the point of living.)

Hi. I’m Becca.

I am…

  • a mom to two adopted boys 
  • really good at googling
  • a lawyer who doesn’t sue people
  • proficient at your vs. you’re (but I make up punctuation as I go)
  • patting myself on the back for figuring out how to insert these bullets
  • a little too into personality tests (INFJ, orange, 2)
  • a resident of Phoenix, and yes, it is  really that hot .

 

You can read more about me here.

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Relief

Relief

Johnny made it to his Army base on Monday. Other moms are messaging me tips to survive boot camp, linking me to Facebook groups, introducing me to people who can show me the ropes. It's lovely, but I’m in a different sort of situation. “Hi Martha with your...

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I’m Supposed to Be in the Creek

I’m Supposed to Be in the Creek

Last week, I was in my favorite place in the world with my 15-person family. Every few years, we head to a ranch in the mountains of Colorado. We've been going here since I was a little girl, and there is truly no place I would rather be. I told my clients I was out,...

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The Invisible People

The Invisible People

I was at a Ross the other day. I love Ross. There is one by my son's school, and on the days I don't feel like laptopping at Starbucks, I walk around in their exceptional summer air conditioning while having riveting conversations with myself about my need for their...

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My Love is Louder

My Love is Louder

My son, Jax, spent last Friday night at his dad's house. On Saturday morning, I waited for my ex-husband's big, white, cowboy of a truck, and opened my front door to greet my son as the truck pulled into my driveway. It was February 13th, the day before...

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Amazing Grace

Amazing Grace

My son, Jax, and I were in the back of an Uber car heading to the airport. It was early, and although we were leaving for Colorado, Jax’s favorite place in the world, he was so, so nervous. His autism and anxiety were in full swing, and the What Ifs that have taken up...

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I Am A Killer of Scorpions.

I Am A Killer of Scorpions.

OMG OMG OMG. I was paid to write something. Cash money! For the very first time. I will now have a celebratory parade around my house with streamers that will take up most of my earnings. But whatever!! I was paid to write.

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